Healing the Erotic self

Centering Queer & Non-Queer Black & of Color Womxn & Femme Sexuality

Where ALL Bodies & ALL Genders Can Learn

 Reclaim your relationship to pleasure 


Transform your healing

When was the last time you felt connected to…


+Your desires being fulfilled

+Your ability to set or reclaim your boundaries

+Your erotic sense of self

+Your mind, body, & breath

Grounded in Audre Lorde’s Uses of the Erotic and centering the lived experience of sexual pleasure among Black & of Color womxn, femmes & non-binary folx, Healing the Erotic Self Life Coaching Program guides you in the transformative process to create a system of self-care that will support you in your journey towards sexual healing, sexual pleasure, and sexual liberation.

The program is offered as a self-paced home program and intimate live group coaching. This program is queer and trans-affirming, kink-aware, and pleasure-centered. The program honors our relationship to our sexuality, gender, and relationship to pleasure, power, & pain. Healing The Erotic Self is a somatic (body-based) program that integrates our emotional, spiritual, sexual, mental, physical, and energetic selves.


Healing the erotic self  is healing the whole-self

mind, body and breath.

centering yourself & your healing

The erotic is the connection between our senses & The Self. With this erotic coaching program, you will lean into your erotic self and bear witness to healing shifts in your personal and professsional lives. Through the lens of pleasure and joy, this is the time manifest healing in your relationships, sex life, and inner self. 

Allow SistaSexologist Queen guide you through this intimate and transformative life coaching program.

Discover Your Erotic Self

Break-ups, relationship &complex trauma, and life happens- none of it should stand in your way of naming your desires & expecting them to be fulfilled. Discover the 8 channels of your erotic self that will allow you to show up authentically in EVERY relationship. 

Intutitive Healing

Do you trust your intuition, your inner self? The f+ckery we experience in our relationships often have us questioning ourselves. Learn to lean into your intuition and how to trust that “something said…”

Sensuality as Self-Care

Sensuality is the pleasure of turning yourself on. Become delighted in your senses & learn how to create a system of self-care with the healing practice of sensuality & eroticism.

The erotic self

Rooted in Black Sexual Epistemology (Gilbert, 2019), The Erotic Self comes from the 21st-century narratives and lived experience of  queer & non-queer Black folx (U.S.). This experience names 8 channels of The Erotic Self in which one experiences sensuality and eroticism. Additionally, this lived experience stresses the need to have an intersectional queer & trans-inclusive point of view (POV)  in sexual and wholistic healing that challenges harmful and oppressive narratives of complex trauma caused by anti-Blackness and all of the -isms.

A Few Kind Words About the program 

“This was so damn good!! Thank you so much, Queen”

Workshop Attendee

“I feel so seen with your presentation (about Healing The Erotic Self). YOU ARE AMAZING!!!!”

Workshop Attendee

“The environment was very inclusive, accepting, supportive and there was lots of knowledge that was shared with ease and eloquence.”

Coaching Client

What’s New On The Blog

From Queen, her team of erotic coaches, and clients who have completed the program, become familiar with the journey towards Healing The Erotic Self.

Healing The Erotic Self

Reclaiming Pleasure

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