“Our movement themselves have to be healing or there’s no point to them.”

-Cara Page, Kindred: Southen Healing Justice Collective

Healing justice is a term coined by disabled Southern (U.S) Black and First Nations femmes, healers, and reproductive justice movement leaders to honor the historical communal connections within movement and the need for movement spaces to address the mental emotional, spiritual, and physical burnout and complex trauma movement activists, communities and individuals of the Global Majority experience. 

Decolonizing Opinion:

We can’t solve burnout prevention in a system designed for our perpetual exhaustion. 

You have to be present for the relationships you want, both with self and in community with others. This presence practice is not only the skill of holding space, it is the alchemy of your lovership and kinship for both your personal and professional relationships. 

To become present with embodied safety and self-trust that challenges “the defaults” of societal and sexual assumptions and expectations, have you considered decolonization as a care practice? 

As a self-liberator and space holder, I can tell you decolonization is the healing practice, process, and framework of self and collective liberation. 

But- You can’t only feel good, avoid, disassociate, or distract your way to liberation. 

To liberate yourself, you can’t bypass shadow work. Shadow work is how you heal. The erotic will decolonize your healing.

 Welcome to this part of your healing journey! 

The erotic is the sexual and non-energy of desirability. The erotic is both sexual and spiritual. The erotic is sacred sexuality.

 When was the last time you felt truly connected to…

 

  • Desire and feeling desirable

  • Your Enthusiastic “Yes” (consent)

  • Your Pleasure

  • Your Breath

  • Your Intuition

  • Your Confidence

  • Your Erotic Self

  • Your Mind, Body, Spirit, and Energy

 Unlearn What You Have Been Taught About The Erotic, Your Healing, Your Sexuality, & Your Embodiment. 

Sexuality is our entire sense of being. It is our emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors related to one’s gender, who we are attracted to, our relationship to pleasure, pain, and power, and how we live in our body. 

According to Oxford-Dictionary, somatic means “relating to the body, especially being distinct from the mind.”

 As a result of colonization, in western medicine and capitalism, the mind and body is separated.

 In the ancestral and indigenous medicine of People of the Global Majority, the mind and body are part of the wholeness of one’s self which also includes spirit, energy, and one’s knowing, otherwise known as intuition.

 From a healing-centered, pleasure-affirming, and erotically embodied lens with a spirit-inclusive approach, join Healing The Erotic Self Life Coaching Program and learn how to reclaim your wholeness with your sacred sexuality. With this erotic life coaching program, get access to healing conversations, guided meditations, healing resources, erotic life coaching sessions, erotic care practices, in addition to, a liberated living healing and lifestyle system that will elevate your healing and transform your connection to wholeness. This membership program offers tiers level to your readiness towards sexual healing and sexual liberation.

 Inspired by the pleasure-manifesto, Uses of the Erotic by Audre Lorde, Healing The Erotic Self Life Coaching Program is created and designed by self-liberator, clinical somatic sexologist, and embodied wellness coach Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed (Queen/they).

 Inside the Healing The Erotic Self Life Coaching Program get access to healing-centered insights and a decolonial healing system on desire, pleasure, breath, touch, and intuition while exploring the erotic care practices informed by ancestral and healing arts and liberating narratives indigenous of People of the Global Majority. Informed by neuroscience, decolonial sexological research, somatic sexology, and the ancestors, Healing The Erotic Self Life Coaching Program (HTES) explores the erotic, or the sexual and non-sexual energy of desirability, in relationship with a variety of topics like sexuality, eroticism, gender, race, desirability, relationships, love, intimacy, sex, sexual healing, and sexual pleasure, power, and pain by space holder-Clinical Somatic Sexologist Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW., M. Ed. (Queen/they).

 Holding space is the practice of being present with the intention to be empathetic for another human being.

 Holding Space is one of the intentions of healing spaces, including this space.

 Committed to making sexual and WHOLE-Self wellness accessible, Healing The Erotic Self Life Coaching Program (HTES) offers quality erotic life coaching and support by someone who is a seasoned licensed psychotherapist and skilled somatic sex therapist who is ethically engaging in capitalism.

 Traditionally, sex therapy , erotic coaching, and professional development session cost between $150-$225 per session.

 HTES members gets access to an inclusive, pleasure-affirming somatic and erotic group coaching, guided meditation audios, wellness and erotic care practices and guidance starting at $7/month.

 Whether it’s for personal healing, professional growth, or both, join this healing-centered, pleasure-affirming community to experience a curated sacred healing space designed to help you embody safety and self-trust to empower your erotic self and honor your relationship to desire, pleasure, breath, consent, your intuition, and your WHOLE-Self.

 The full program includes:

  • 3 LIVE monthly group coaching sessions including HTES Core Sessions,

  • Guide meditation audios,

  • HTES workbook (Ebook version),

  • HTES Liberated Living ebook series,

  • HTES Erotic Care Practices Library, and

  • Specialized Retreats

  • Office Hours with Queen,

  • Private Virtual Community

This program ethically engages in capitalism to ensure this liberation work is accessible to those who want to transform their healing and self-liberate with the erotic. There are 6 membership tiers including one for helping and healing professionals like therapists, counselors, educators, and life coaches.